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My Child Is Sensory Sensitive — What Should I Do?

A practical guide for Chennai parents with sensory sensitive children — what sensory processing difficulties look like, when to seek OT, and how DARC's sensory integration therapy helps.

Updated 2026-05-09

Written by

Dr. Aaditya Malathy

Founder, DARC · Occupational Therapist, OT, MS (USA)

Clinically reviewed by

Vasudharany

Head SLP · Speech, language, feeding and communication support

What sensory sensitivity looks like in children

Every child has sensory preferences. But when a child's sensory responses are significantly different from peers — causing distress, avoidance, or daily life disruption — it may indicate a sensory processing difficulty that benefits from occupational therapy.

Common signs include: extreme reactions to sounds (covering ears, meltdowns at loud environments), refusal of specific food textures, intense reactions to clothing tags or seams, distress at haircuts or nail cutting, avoidance of playground equipment, crashing and seeking intense physical input, discomfort with being touched, and difficulty in busy or stimulating environments like malls or birthday parties.

What sensory processing difficulties actually are

Sensory processing difficulties occur when the brain does not interpret sensory information in a typical way — leading to either over-sensitivity (hyper-responsivity), under-sensitivity (hypo-responsivity), or sensory seeking. These patterns are not behaviour choices. The child is not being dramatic or difficult. Their nervous system is genuinely registering the environment differently.

Sensory processing difficulties frequently co-occur with autism, ADHD, developmental delay, and anxiety — but they also occur independently without any associated diagnosis.

When to seek occupational therapy

Seek an OT assessment if sensory sensitivities are affecting daily routines (meals, dressing, grooming, outings), limiting school participation, causing frequent meltdowns, making the child distressed in situations peers handle easily, or preventing the child from engaging in age-appropriate play.

You do not need to wait for a formal diagnosis. An OT assessment is the right first step — it will identify which sensory systems are most dysregulated and what the most effective support approach is.

How sensory integration therapy at DARC helps

Sensory integration therapy at DARC uses structured sensory-motor activities to help the child's nervous system process sensory input more efficiently. The clinic environment includes equipment for vestibular (movement and balance), proprioceptive (deep pressure and body position), and tactile (touch) input — delivered in a child-led, playful context.

Dr. Aaditya's initial assessment identifies the specific sensory profile before any therapy starts. The plan is targeted to the child's actual pattern — not a generic sensory circuit.

What parents can do at home

DARC's OT team provides every family with a sensory home programme — a daily sensory diet of specific activities timed around the child's schedule. A sensory diet does not need to take hours. Strategic 5–10 minute sensory activities before challenging tasks (like homework or haircuts) can significantly reduce sensory-related distress.

Understanding the child's sensory triggers also helps parents reduce unnecessary exposure during the integration process — not as a permanent accommodation, but as a temporary support while the nervous system builds capacity.

How to book in Chennai

Book a sensory processing OT assessment at DARC Ashok Nagar (+91 80151 52682) or Pallikaranai (+91 88705 29103). The assessment will give you clarity on what is driving the sensory sensitivity and what to do about it.

Use the free Child Development Check as a first step to identify whether sensory processing is the primary concern or part of a broader profile.

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